Sugar daddy and sugar baby dating relationships can be precarious for several reasons. The first is that there are no written rules to sugar daddy and sugar baby dating relationships. The subject of these relationships is a bit taboo in the first place, because they are not the social norm, so nobody ever knows how to deal with them. There’s no one to regulate these relationships, so how does one act? You’re really making up the rules as you go alone.
The second reason is that sometimes, you will come across people in your life who will be opposed to the type of relationship that you’re having. Perhaps your mother thinks you should settle down for a nice man, or your friends think that your sugar baby is just a gold digger. You may not get the support you are looking for if you ever encounter problems with your relationship.
But as in all relationships, problems do happen. A friend of ours – one of the nicest gentlemen and professionals you could ever hope to meet – happens to be a sugar daddy to someone he thought was a lovely young lady, a university student and an aspiring visual artist. One day, things went south. The man was spending more and more time with his wife – who the sugar baby knew all about – and the young woman was jealous. She demanded that he give her $500 on top of her monthly allowance – or she’d confront his wife.
Our friend was floored. Up until then, their relationship wasn’t like that, and he asked us what to do. While he cared about this girl, he also didn’t want his wife to know. We had some advice for him, and other men like him.